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The common prejudice that love is as common as "romance" may be due to the fact that we all learned about it first through poetry. But the poets fool us; they are the only ones to whom love is not only a crucial, but an indispensable experience, which entitles them to mistake it for a universal one.

The Human Condition
When two people part, it is the one who is not in love who makes the tender speeches.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Once we are involved in a relationship, there is no longer any such thing as a minor detail.

How to Think More About Sex
Though debts are condemned in the financial world, the world of friendship and love may perversely depend on well-managed debts.

The Romantic Movement: Sex, Shopping, and the Novel
One cannot read a novel without ascribing to the heroine the traits of the one we love.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
If it is true that love is the pursuit in another of qualities we lack in ourselves, then in our love of someone from another culture, one ambition may be to weld ourselves more closely to values missing from our own culture.

The Art of Travel
Though we sometimes suspect that people are hiding things from us, it is not until we are in love that we feel an urgency to press our inquiries, and in seeking answers, we are apt to discover the extent to which people disguise and conceal their real lives.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Love is an incurable disease. In love, there is permanent suffering. Those who love and those who are happy are not the same.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once (we soon feel ungrateful) or those who never allow us to kiss them (we soon forget them), but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.

On Love
The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.

On Love
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